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Speak Life: You Never Know How Long Your Words Will Live
Today, two songs came on the radio back-to-back. And I don’t think I was supposed to miss the connection. The first was Chandler Moore’s God I’m Just Grateful. I know the song has been around for a while, but lately it has become one of those songs for me....You know the kind🤭. The one you’ve heard before, but suddenly you’re not just listening to it anymore; you’re feeling every word🤣. "I’m Okay If You Think I’m Out of My Mind" There’s a part toward the end of God I’m Just

Carla Kage
23 hours ago7 min read


When Did the Invitation Become an Obligation?
I heard an illustration recently that I haven't been able to stop thinking about. Imagine someone hands you tickets to a Nebraska football game. (And if you're reading this and you're NOT from Nebraska, I'm sorry. 😂 Kidding. Just imagine it's whatever event gets you ridiculously excited.) OK--so--You're excited. Of course you are. It's Husker football. 🌽🏈 We only get six or seven home games all year, and there is something about game day in Nebraska that just feels differe

Carla Kage
Sep 86 min read


I’m Not Changing Colors for You
September 5, 2026 I had one of those moments recently where I caught myself thinking, What is the deal? You know the kind. You’re around someone you don’t really know. There’s no history between you; no argument, no falling out. You’ve literally never had a relationship to have a problem. Maybe your kids play on the same team. Maybe you just happen to be in the same circles. So you try--because your personality is happy and chatty. You say something. You join the conversation

Carla Kage
Sep 58 min read


What Are You Still Tied To?
August 22, 2026 For many years, I have loved this image of an elephant tied to a small wooden stake. The first time I saw it, I couldn't get over the absurdity of it. Here is this enormous animal, powerful enough to move things I couldn't begin to move, standing there with a rope around its leg attached to a piece of wood in the ground, and it stays. The story commonly told with this image is that the elephant learned when it was young that it couldn't pull free; eventually,

Carla Kage
Aug 227 min read


You Can Love Jesus and Still Notice the Waves
August 19, 2026 For a long time, I thought strong faith was supposed to feel different than mine did. I thought if I trusted God enough, I wouldn't be afraid. If my faith were strong enough, I wouldn't struggle so much with the unknown. And surely if Jesus were really at the center of my life, I wouldn't keep looking around at everything that could go wrong. Then I started seeing Peter differently. Most of us know the story: the disciples are in a boat when they see Jesus wal

Carla Kage
Aug 197 min read


Sometimes God Has to Burn the Bridge
Not every ending is rejection. Sometimes it’s protection. By Carla Kage · August 9, 2026 I have spent a lot of my life going back. Back to people who hurt me. Back to friendships I knew had changed. Back to situations God had already given me every reason to walk away from.Back to places where I was tolerated because I desperately wanted to believe I was loved. And every time I went back, I somehow convinced myself that maybe this time would be different. Maybe they would und

Carla Kage
Aug 96 min read


You Cannot Love Someone Into Loving You the Same Way
August 4, 2026 • 7 min read • Relationships & Boundaries "Love isn't measured by how much you're willing to give. Sometimes wisdom is recognizing when you've already given enough." There was a time in my life when I believed that if I loved people well enough, they would eventually love me the same way. Not perfectly, just enough for me to feel chosen. Enough to know I mattered. Enough to stop wondering if I had done something wrong. So I tried harder. I checked in more. Forg

Carla Kage
Aug 34 min read


Why Do I Care So Much What Other People Think?
August 2, 2026 • 8 min read • Identity & Healing Have you ever replayed a conversation ten times because someone answered your text with a period instead of an exclamation point? Or wondered if you said too much? Or walked away convinced someone was upset with you, even though they never said they were? I have. There was a time in my life when I could walk away from a conversation and replay it for hours. Did I say too much? Were they upset with me? Did I come across the wron

Carla Kage
Aug 34 min read
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